Love, crisis processes, couple breakups and dis-love. Lines of reflection from the social approach based on Latin American music "plancha"

Abstract

Romantic love is one of the most interesting and complex processes, both
socially and individually. Defining it in one way is even more complex.
However, we have all experienced it in one way or another. We find it in all
social spheres and in all stages of life, generating sensations that are possibly
unique and particular. Nobody knows how or at what moment love has
come to us, but we experience it, and we accumulate experiences that have
given us great satisfactions. But how do we fall in love? How did we learn to
differentiate what was love with respect to any other sensation or emotion?
This article is based on the premise that nobody has taught us to love, and our
social processes have allowed us to build fantasies and myths about falling in
love, which mark us in each of the romantic experiences of a couple, at such
a level that, When difficulties arise during the relationship, we do not know
how to resolve them, because we think that eternal love will be perfect. In
view of this, the objective of this article is to give continuity to the reflections
made in the article "Love, falling in love and the body" (2017), but focusing
on the processes of crisis, ruptures and dis-love that we all go through, taking
reference the Latin American music “plancha”.